The Italian imperative turns requests into clear commands-from ordering coffee to giving directions. Learn all forms, irregular verbs, and negative commands with practical examples.
What is the Italian imperative and why does it matter?
The imperativo expresses direct commands, advice, and instructions. Unlike English, Italian distinguishes formal (Lei) and informal (tu) command forms-critical for polite travel and social life.
Choose a command form for parlare (to speak)
Who you address
One friend (tu)
Affirmative
Parla! → Speak!
Negative
Non parlare! → Do not speak!
Who you address
One person formally (Lei)
Affirmative
Parli! → Speak!
Negative
Non parli! → Do not speak!
Who you address
Your group (noi)
Affirmative
Parliamo! → Let us speak!
Negative
Non parliamo! → Let us not speak!
Who you address
Several people (voi)
Affirmative
Parlate! → Speak!
Negative
Non parlate! → Do not speak!
| Who you address | Affirmative | Negative |
|---|---|---|
| One friend (tu) | Parla! → Speak! | Non parlare! → Do not speak! |
| One person formally (Lei) | Parli! → Speak! | Non parli! → Do not speak! |
| Your group (noi) | Parliamo! → Let us speak! | Non parliamo! → Let us not speak! |
| Several people (voi) | Parlate! → Speak! | Non parlate! → Do not speak! |
How do you conjugate regular -are verbs in the imperative?
-are verbs use -a for tu, -i for Lei-opposite to present tense tu/ Lei endings, which confuses many learners.
Parlare (to speak) - imperative forms
Person
tu
Form
parla
Example
Parla più piano! - Speak slower!
Person
Lei
Form
parli
Example
Parli italiano, per favore
Person
noi
Form
parliamo
Example
Parliamo con il cameriere
Person
voi
Form
parlate
Example
Parlate dopo di me
| Person | Form | Example |
|---|---|---|
| tu | parla | Parla più piano! - Speak slower! |
| Lei | parli | Parli italiano, per favore |
| noi | parliamo | Parliamo con il cameriere |
| voi | parlate | Parlate dopo di me |
How do -ere and -ire verbs work in the imperative?
-ere and -ire verbs share endings: -i (tu), -a (Lei), -iamo (noi), -ite (voi). Scrivi! (Write!) vs Scriva! (formal Write!).
- Prendere → prendi / prenda / prendiamo / prendete
- Partire → parti / parta / partiamo / partite
- Aprire → apri / apra / apriamo / aprite
Which imperative verbs are irregular?
High-frequency irregular imperatives appear daily. Memorize essere, avere, andare, fare, dire, and dare first.
Common irregular imperatives
Verb
essere
tu
sii
Lei
sia
Example
Sii paziente!
Verb
avere
tu
abbi
Lei
abbia
Example
Abbi fiducia
Verb
andare
tu
va'
Lei
vada
Example
Vada dritto
Verb
fare
tu
fa'
Lei
faccia
Example
Faccia attenzione
Verb
dire
tu
di'
Lei
dica
Example
Mi dica la verità
| Verb | tu | Lei | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| essere | sii | sia | Sii paziente! |
| avere | abbi | abbia | Abbi fiducia |
| andare | va' | vada | Vada dritto |
| fare | fa' | faccia | Faccia attenzione |
| dire | di' | dica | Mi dica la verità |
How do pronouns attach to imperatives?
With informal affirmative commands, object pronouns attach: Dimmi! (Tell me!), Guardalo! (Look at it!). In negative tu commands, the pronoun may precede or attach to the infinitive: Non me lo dire! / Non dirmelo! (Do not tell me.) With formal Lei commands, it normally precedes: Non mi dica! (Do not tell me.)
How do you form negative imperatives?
Negative tu commands use non + infinitive. Formal Lei uses non + present subjunctive; noi uses non + the exhortative form; voi uses non + the voi imperative form.
- Non fumare! - Don't smoke! (tu)
- Non fumi! - Don't smoke! (Lei)
- Non partiamo! - Let's not leave!
What travel phrases use the imperative?
Staff commands you constantly: Aspetti, Segua, Mi segua, Prenda (Take this). Learning to recognize them reduces travel stress.
Combine imperative recognition with our essential travel phrases guide.
What is the difference between imperative and present tense for politeness?
Italians soften commands with per favore or use conditional: Potrebbe aiutarmi? instead of Aiutami! Lei imperative plus per favore is standard polite service language.
How does noi imperative express suggestions?
Andiamo!, Mangiamo!, Proviamo! translate as Let's go/eat/try. Noi imperative builds group plans naturally.
What mistakes do English speakers make with imperatives?
Using tu with strangers, confusing formal Lei with informal tu, and assuming a negative tu pronoun has only one valid position are common errors.
common grammar mistakes Review our guide to common Italian grammar mistakes for related errors.
How do imperatives appear in recipes and instructions?
Cookbooks use imperative throughout: Tagliate (Cut), Mescolate (Mix), Servite (Serve). Reading recipes builds imperative fluency passively.
How should you practice the imperative?
- Tell one friend not to speak: "Non …!" (parlare)
- Ask one person formally to speak: "…!" (parlare)
- Translate "Do not tell me" for a friend in two valid ways (dire + mi).
Dolce Vita Italian School drills imperative through role-play: giving directions, ordering food, and classroom-style instruction games.
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How do imperatives appear on public signs?
Not every public instruction uses the imperative: Divieto di fumare (No smoking) is a noun phrase, Vietato entrare (Entry prohibited) uses an infinitive, and Uscita di emergenza (Emergency exit) is a label. An actual imperative is Non fumate! (Do not smoke!), addressed to several people.
Ready to command Italian confidently?
Master irregular forms first, then practice Lei imperatives for travel. Understanding commands completes half of daily Italian interactions.
“The imperative is the mood of action-in Italy, life moves in commands softened by charm.”
- Dolce Vita Italian School grammar instructors
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